• A person: No second chances, he didn't think of you when he was cheating on you; why should you think of forgiving him at all?
  • Me: why don't you view it fairly? why don't you think it might have been you, you were the problem that pushed your partner away?
  • Ah! because we're too self-centered thinking we should always blame others, cause it makes us satisfied inside, but does it really?